Two Years Beyond Chemo
A Celebration of Triumph
"Congratulations, you are cancer-free!" — a phrase that warrants celebration. Yet, cancer's complexity sometimes blurs the lines of definitive milestones. Depending on the cancer type, the absence of a single "cancer-free" proclamation can leave one wondering how to mark this victory. Two years ago, on August 19th, I completed my last chemotherapy session. Though control over our body's response to chemo is limited, I was fortunate to achieve my treatment goal without delays. This day held personal significance, aligning with the birthday of a dear friend's daughter and falling one month before my own. While radiation lay ahead, the completion of chemotherapy loomed large, signaling progress. Five months earlier, my tumor was successfully removed, but a small amount of residual cancer lingered in a single lymph node. Triumphantly concluding chemo felt like the threshold to the elusive "No Evidence of Disease" (NED) category. Four months later, validation arrived—confirmation of my NED status.
As I wrapped up chemo, my modest wish was two-fold: cake and champagne. We toasted with elegant Champagne, savoring the moment, and enjoyed a cake that eloquently expressed our sentiments and completely scandalized my sweet Mother in Law: "Fuck Cancer." The following year, on August 19th, scans reiterated my NED status. Once more, Champagne flowed and cake adorned the celebration. Today, August 19th holds the title of "Champagne and Cake Day" in our household. This occasion has evolved into a precious opportunity to discuss my cancer journey with our children in a positive light. Despite their young age during my diagnosis, this conversation is vital for them to understand their familial risk and the concept of resilience. Our family's legacy is intertwined with cancer, a part of our narrative even as my health status shines.
Considering the nature of my cancer and the markers involved, achieving remission demands a steadfast journey to the 5-year NED milestone—implying three more years of planning for a perfect celebration. To fellow survivors and patients, I extend a resounding recommendation:
Celebrate every victory, regardless of scale. Embrace activities that ignite joy and honor your intrinsic worthiness.
In closing, these two years post-chemo have illuminated the strength within me. The path forward is navigated with hope, determination, and the persistent belief that life's adversities can be transcended. Embrace resilience and the importance of celebrating each step forward.